Monday, January 31, 2011

REJECTION......Another way of saying "Wrong CHOICE!"

yes...I really don't like being reject by people.i like to be accepted,valued..if it happen to me it will hurt me badly..and I will keep thinking of it.It keep me a long time to get over it..
What kind of rejection that I trying to say is any kind of rejection,no matter if it's in love,your career,friends,school or anything else,is difficult to bear.Rejection is definitely not a fun thing.But, upsetting as it is,the more we deal with it..
T_T so sad..

When I got rejected, I will try to calm down myself by saying owh..it is a wrong choice.I should never look at it again but deep inside my heart it leave scars..haha :p..
Then what I did to handle rejection,I will try to find a new hobby or something that enjoyed to take my mind off of the rejection.When i'm happy, rejection's sting is taken away.And do nice stuff.You don’t have to hurt yourself because someone else hurt you.
I especially like to cry. I think crying is the best way to overcome my problem.. it will let your feelings out and talk to your friends about your rejection.Sometimes friends can be a good helper.It helps me enormously to have people to talk to. It is better if they know me well and care for me deeply.Sometimes they just listen. Sometimes they tell me that the rejection was mistaken and sometimes they support me in changes I want to make.
So,dont fell really bad if got rejected.Remember there are many things that you can do..like me ^_^
 

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